Leadership Loveable Losers

Scripture: Titus 3:1-8

      • WELCOME:   To Central Church of Christ, not a place, but a people called to show God’s love, tell God’s story, and be God’s family. As we continue in the process of affirming elders and deacons on July 18th, it’s wise for us to look at more than just a list of qualities listed, but at the context of the entire Bible.

Titus 1: Qualities of Elders

Titus 2: Qualities of older men, older women, younger women, younger men, slaves. Vs11

Titus 3: Remind them, Who The elders, older men, older women, younger women, younger men, slaves…

      • Titus 3:3-7 tells us the church has always been filled with losers.

“At one time we too were foolish, disobedient, deceived and enslaved by all kinds of passions and pleasures. We lived in malice and envy, being hated and hating one another. But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us generously through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that, having been justified by his grace, we might become heirs having the hope of eternal life.”

 

Titus 3 declared that God built His church completely from a roster of losers.

ILLUS: Mars Hill Church – Marc Driscoll

https://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/podcasts/rise-and-fall-of-mars-hill/who-killed-mars-hill-church-mark-driscoll-rise-fall.html

In 18 years –

Mars Hill Church was a Christian megachurch, founded by Mark Driscoll, Lief Moi, and Mike Gunn. It was a multi-site church based in Seattle, Washington and grew from a home Bible study to 15 locations in 4 U.S. states.[1] Services were offered at its 15 locations; the church also podcast content of weekend services, and of conferences, on the Internet[2] with more than 260,000 sermon views online every week.[3] In 2013, Mars Hill had a membership of 6,489 and average weekly attendance of 12,329.[4] 

From <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mars_Hill_Church>

Some of the charges are as follows:

      • October 2011—Mark said in a meeting that he did not want a certain staff elder (who was not slim) to take on a certain prominent leadership role because “his fat ass is not the image we want for our church.”
      • May 8, 2012—In a meeting of the Full Council convened to vote on the slate of nominees for the new board of advisors and accountability, Mark was explaining to the elders that under the newly revised bylaws, the Full Council would have the right to review any changes by the board. One elder corrected Mark with his own understanding that the new bylaws, in fact, allow the board to make decisions without running it by the Full Council. Mark’s response to that elder was bullying, with some elders present recalling language to the effect of: “I don’t give a shit what you think. I’m trying to be nice to you guys by asking your opinion. In reality, we don’t need your vote to make this decision. This is what we’re doing.”
      • March 2013—Violence: Threatened to tear down a former elder’s church plant, saying “I’ll tear his church down brick by brick.”

From <https://www.wthrockmorton.com/2014/08/21/former-mars-hill-church-pastors-bring-formal-charges-against-mark-driscoll/>

“… it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God.” Matthew 19:24

 

 

“Peter replied, ‘REPENT and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.’” Acts 2:38

 

 “… (God) commands ALL people EVERYWHERE to repent. Acts 17:30

“At one time we too were foolish, disobedient, deceived and enslaved by all kinds of passions and pleasures. We lived in malice and envy, being hated and hating one another.” Titus 3:3

Back in 2006 the Washington Post conducted a poll,

  • 79% of Americans believed they were “above average” in appearance,
  • 86% feel they were above average in intelligence,
  • and 94% believed they were above average in honesty.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6029792/#:~:text=We%20sought%20robust%2C%20contemporary%20evidence,U.S.%20census%20data%2C%20we%20found

https://digest.bps.org.uk/2018/07/24/first-survey-of-its-kind-for-50-years-finds-most-americans-still-think-they-have-above-average-intelligence/

“Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector.

   The Pharisee stood up and prayed about himself: ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other men…”

Luke 18:9-14

 

“… Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners— of whom I am the worst. But for that very reason I was shown mercy so that in me, the worst of sinners, Christ Jesus might display his unlimited patience…” I Timothy 1:15-16

 

      • &&&ILLUS:  Years ago a preacher named Carl Ketcherside (non-instrumental Church of Christ) moved to St. Louis and began working with a group of teenagers he described as “a crew of ripped off long haired kids.” Most of them had a history of drug addiction.

   But he loved them and he listened to them, and one by one baptized them into Christ.

   An affluent member of the church apparently wasn’t pleased with having these young folks come to their church building and he asked Ketcherside, “How are you making out those long haired, sad looking specimens you have been meeting with?”

   And Ketcherside replied, “Those aren’t specimens, they are children of God. You are talking about my brethren in the Lord.”

  The other man smirked and said, “They look to me like something the cat dragged in.”

  And Ketcherside replied, “No. They look like someone the shepherd brought home.”

http://donaldcrane.blogspot.com/2014/07/hippies-someone-shepherd-brought-home.html

 

  “He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us generously through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that, having been justified by his grace, we might become heirs having the hope of eternal life.”   Titus 3:5b-7

 

Acts 2:38  “Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.”

John 3:5

  Jesus told Nicodemus, “ “I tell you the truth, no one can enter the kingdom of God unless he is born of water and the Spirit.”

To be saved we need to be born of the water AND the Spirit.

      • *NICODEMUS VIDEO

 

 

INVITATION – Loveable Losers – Bring Christ Your Broken Life


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Prayer Request: Betty Simmons Family


Central Prayer Request: Please pray for Zelma Brandenburg and the family of her sister, Betty Simmons. Betty passed away on Wednesday morning. Services will be at Hunter’s Funeral Home on Saturday, July 10th, at 11am.
https://www.hunterfuneralhome.net/obituary/betty-jean-simmons

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YA Kayaking Trip

Central Young Adult News – 2 Items: Kayaking & Sunday Bible Study

  • Please confirm (Message Topher) if you are coming Kayaking on Sunday, 11th after church services.  We’ll eat at Sonic after church, then put kayaks in at Mitchell Ford in Big Bottom 20 minutes south of Sparta by 1pm. Do you need Topher to get a kayak/paddle/life jacket for you?  This beginner level 2.25 mile kayak trip will take us 1.5 to 2 hours depending on how much we play/wade/swim.
  • You’re invited back to Young Adult Bible Class this Sunday morning at 9am. We’ll meet in the library/lounge to begin looking at short thoughts on community from a Christ follower who was executed by Hitler’s Nazis as a young adult: Dietrich Bonhoeffer. We will have coffee and light snacks.
  • Let Topher know if you need anything for Kayaking!

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Marriage Assessment for the Community

Family Forte: Invincible Love & Saving Marriage

by: Topher Wiles

How many of you were like us?  I thought that we would tie the proverbial knot, carry Ashley over the threshold, and as the fair tales say, “live happily ever after?” We dated for two years, were engaged for one, and had a beautiful wedding.  Now after 17 years of marital ups and downs, we discovered that a good marriage is so much more than a loving feeling, a lavish ceremony, and having a lot in common. I wish we had gone through some sort of organized premarital counseling. 

If we’re being truthful with ourselves, that whole “till death do us part” in the marriage vows is increasingly ironic.  According to Les & Leslie Parrot (authors of “Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts”) things are changing. In the 1930s, one out of seven marriages ended in divorce. In the 1960s, it was one out of four. On survivedivorce.com, that figure is now around 40 percent of marriages today ending in divorce. That tells us that so many couples toss the bouquet, return the tuxedos, and assume they’re heading for marital bliss while their ship is really sailing toward wedded disaster.  

We believe God has more in store for your family forte than what our current culture provides.

Here at Central Church of Christ, we believe God has set the standard on what a loving relationship is and we are preparing ourselves to help members in the community get ready for the best marital relationship possible. That’s why I and others at our church have gotten certified to offer pre-marital counseling through the SYMBIS (Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts) system to our community. This 30 minute pre-marital assessment tool and five accompanying counseling sessions are designed to give couples the following: healthy expectations of marriage, a realistic concept of love, a positive attitude and outlook toward married life, a better way to communicate feelings, an understanding of gender differences, the ability to make decisions and settle arguments, a common spiritual foundation, and a deep and abiding commitment to the bonds of marriage together.  This is the broader concept of what invincible love looks like day-in and day-out in a marriage.

Tennessee understands the value of pre-marital counseling as our state offers a $60 discount (from $97.50 to $37.50 in White County) on marriage licenses to couples who obtain pre-marital counseling within a year before the marriage.  For couples choosing pre-marital counseling with us here at Central, we ask that the couple cover the $35 assessment fee, and we will provide 5 free counseling sessions directed by the findings of the assessment. All told, you’ll come out of this saving $25 in Tennessee and saving your marriage before it starts!

 

It doesn’t matter if you go to church or not, you are welcome to enjoy premarital counseling with us at Central Church of Christ as we strive to strengthen families in our community through the SYMBIS assessment and premarital counseling. If you’d like to learn more about marriage and more, just contact me, Topher, at topherwiles@spartacoc.com or call our office at 931-836-2874.  

Marriage doesn’t have to be a gamble. Your lifelong partner is better than a roll of the dice. Your marriage can be better prepared to weather the storms that will come. You can enjoy “invincible love.” We’re here to help.

Hang my locket around your neck, wear my ring on your finger. Love is invincible facing danger and death. Passion laughs at the terrors of hell. The fire of love stops at nothing— it sweeps everything before it. Flood waters can’t drown love, torrents of rain can’t put it out. – Song of Songs 8:6-7


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Fun in the Son

Many thanks to Cathy Garvin for snapping a few photos yesterday. I appreciate everyone coming out to smile, play, and be thankful for freedom in Christ. Roger Mason was excellent on the grill and the spread of food by all of you was excellent. If anyone else took fun photos, please share!

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Pool Devotional Celebrate Freedom

John Chapter 5:1-17

After this there was a feast of the Jews, and Jesus went up to Jerusalem.

Now there is in Jerusalem by the Sheep Gate a pool, in Aramaica] called Bethesda,b] which has five roofed colonnades. In these lay a multitude of invalids—blind, lame, and paralyzed.c] One man was there who had been an invalid for thirty-eight years. When Jesus saw him lying there and knew that he had already been there a long time, he said to him, “Do you want to be healed?” The sick man answered him, “Sir, I have no one to put me into the pool when the water is stirred up, and while I am going another steps down before me.” Jesus said to him, “Get up, take up your bed, and walk.” And at once the man was healed, and he took up his bed and walked.

Now that day was the Sabbath. 10 So the Jewsd] said to the man who had been healed, “It is the Sabbath, and it is not lawful for you to take up your bed.” 11 But he answered them, “The man who healed me, that man said to me, ‘Take up your bed, and walk.’ 12 They asked him, “Who is the man who said to you, ‘Take up your bed and walk’?” 13 Now the man who had been healed did not know who it was, for Jesus had withdrawn, as there was a crowd in the place. 14 Afterward Jesus found him in the temple and said to him, “See, you are well! Sin no more, that nothing worse may happen to you.” 15 The man went away and told the Jews that it was Jesus who had healed him. 16 And this was why the Jews were persecuting Jesus, because he was doing these things on the Sabbath. 17 But Jesus answered them, “My Father is working until now, and I am working.”
 
John 8:31-38

The Truth Will Set You Free

31 So Jesus said to the Jews who had believed him, “If you abide in my word, you are truly my disciples, 32 and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” 33 They answered him, “We are offspring of Abraham and have never been enslaved to anyone. How is it that you say, ‘You will become free’?”

34 Jesus answered them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, everyone who practices sin is a slaveb] to sin. 35 The slave does not remain in the house forever; the son remains forever. 36 So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed. 37 I know that you are offspring of Abraham; yet you seek to kill me because my word finds no place in you. 38 I speak of what I have seen with my Father, and you do what you have heard from your father.”


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Sermon Notes: 7/4 Freedom

  • Scripture Reading: Deuteronomy 18:15-19: “The Lord your God will raise up for you a prophet like me from among you, from your brothers—it is to him you shall listen— 16 just as you desired of the Lord your God at Horeb on the day of the assembly, when you said, ‘Let me not hear again the voice of the Lord my God or see this great fire any more, lest I die.’ 17 And the Lord said to me, ‘They are right in what they have spoken. 18 I will raise up for them a prophet like you from among their brothers. And I will put my words in his mouth, and he shall speak to them all that I command him. 19 And whoever will not listen to my words that he shall speak in my name, I myself will require it of him.
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  • Welcome to Central Church of Christ.  Not a place, but a people called out to show God’s love, tell God’s story, and be God’s family. We are still talking about church Leadership since we’re right smack dab in the middle of affirming elders and deacons. Let me tell you, Good leadership brings freedom.  Freedom to grow, freedom to dream, freedom to live a life of hope rather than fear. Today, let’s talk about Freedom, and one of the symbols of freedom in the Bible.
      • God knows that a child possesses all the potential to change the world!
  • Exodus 2:3 tells us “When (his mother) could hide him no longer, she took for him a basket made of bulrushes and daubed it with bitumen and pitch. She put the child in it and placed it among the reeds by the river bank.”
  • God caused Moses to be “instructed in all the wisdom of the Egyptians”Acts 7:22
  • Ephesians 2:10 tells us that YOU “are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.”
  • I Corinthians 1:25-29 tells us that “the foolishness of God is wiser than men, and the weakness of God is stronger than men. For consider your calling, brothers: not many of you were wise according to worldly standards, not many were powerful, not many were of noblebirth.
  • But God chose what is foolish in the world to shame the wise; God chose what is WEAK in the world to shame the strong; God chose what is low and despised in the world, even things that are not, to bring to nothing things that are, so that no human being might boast in the presence of God.”
  • In Deuteronomy 18:17-19 the LORD said to Moses: 
  • “I will raise up for them a prophet like you from among their brothers; I will put my words in his mouth, and he will tell them everything I command him. If anyone does not listen to my words that the prophet speaks in my name, I myself will call him to account.”
  • I Corinthians 10:1-2 Paul wrote: “I do not want you to be ignorant of the fact, brothers and sisters, that our ancestors were all under the cloud and that they all passed through the sea. They were all baptized into Moses in the cloud and in the sea.”
  • Galatians 3:27 “For as many of you as were baptized into Christ have put on Christ.”
Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, 6 who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, 7 but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. 8 And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. 9 Therefore God has highly exalted him and bestowed on him the name that is above every name, 10 so that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, 11 and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father. – Philippians 2:5-11

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Central Celebration of Freedom

Central Event: Join us this Sunday for a time of celebrating of God’s gift of freedom. We have reserved the Sparta YMCA pool on Sunday, July 4th from 1-3pm for swimming, food, and fun fellowship in the sun. We’ll light the griddle up immediately for a late lunch of burgers, dogs, & brats. We’ll provide the main course and drinks, you just bring a side or dessert, a friend, and a smile. We’ll have a devotional time of singing, message, and prayer. RSVP to Topher with your intended numbers to be sure we have enough food to go around. We love you and hope you enjoy a great weekend celebrating God’s gift of freedom.

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Central Prayer Request for the Crosslin Family

Central Prayer Request: As you may have noticed in the church email today, there are three prayer requests related to Karen Crosslin’s family. Karen’s brother, Steve Green (Mississippi), has been diagnosed with advanced stage cancer and will be undergoing treatments to slow the spread. Karen’s 91-year-old father has Alzheimer’s, heart issues, and suffered a fall. Karen’s uncle Stanley is also struggling through chemotherapy right now. Please pray for strength and peace for all three of these individuals, for Karen, for her mother, and for their entire family.
Also, I believe Tommy’s last day at work is today at Walmart. Please pray for Tommy’s transition into retirement!

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Ronald Allison sets a record

Ronald Allison set a new track record and brought home the 1st place trophy this weekend at the Farmington Dragway in North Carolina. Congratulate him on this amazing achievement at just 76 years young! 

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